People living in one day at a time recovery can have all or nothing thinking. Such thinking is effective when used in regards to total abstinence. If we don’t take that first one we won’t get high or loaded. When we think this way because we have been introduced to difficulties or stressors that will cause changes in our lives and we have to adapt, or give and take, in these situations it doesn’t always mean that it’s an all or nothing thing. It’s like buying a previously owned vehicle. Even if we have to compromise it can still be a good thing. Another reality is if the car is a bad thing, we don’t have to buy it. We don’t need to compromise here. It’s our reality. Adaptation is a skill that evolves with time. Total abstinence is a good thing. So are wisdom and boundaries. Think first. Peace.
