Many people living in one day at a time recovery believe when we fall into the trap of blaming others for our disorders we are harboring the reality of resentment. In other words we are saying that blame creates bitterness and bitterness steals the reality of whatever joy we might find in life. We become unware of the freedom we find while living life one day at a time. In recovery most of us discover the reality of forgiveness be it people, places, or institutions that we forgive. When we are able to do so we become free of resentment and learn the reality of letting go. When we do let go we are free to experience joy, peace, and love. Blame, bitterness, and resentment fade away. Life becomes lived in the present. We deserve to be happy. We own it. Peace.
