Those of us living in one day at a time recovery understand what it is like see our lives, and the people in it, with differing perspectives. One day at a time we get to see the reality of recovery’s imperfection. No amount of gratitude or attempts at positive thinking can change this. We realize we are emotional beings. We are not alone in having emotions impact upon our views or our perspectives. It happens to most people. For instance, when stressed we can become angry and less flexible with other people. We become less adaptive to some situations. We can become difficult to be with. When we are not stressed, and things are going well we are patient and amiable people. We are better at adapting to life’s situations, but we are sometimes careless. When we sense danger, real or imagined, we become protective or frightened. The reality of this causes us to look at life with differing perspectives, but such perspectives can bring magnified effects with disabling consequences to those of us who live with mental illness. Such perspectives can ruin not only relationships, but they also destroy careers. In reality we might have a tendency to isolate because of this. As I write this, I know it’s a reality and I know it happens to many people. The hope is to live our one day at a time recovery and adapt as best we can. Others understand. Reach out and be supportive. We’re not freaks. Peace.
