Many people living in one day at a time recovery no longer choose to party on Friday night. When we no longer choose to party, we mean we choose to no longer use alcohol or pot. This is our one day at a time reality. What we must say is this is our reality, and we do not begrudge any others the merriment obtained from using alcohol or pot. Another reality is that alcohol and pot were no longer any fun for us. Nonetheless we can still have a good time. More often than not we choose to keep our wits about us. We find this of the utmost importance to us. For some of us, getting comfortable on Friday night means going to a movie. We can also get comfortable doing our laundry on a Friday night. To some people this sounds a bit feeble but we are doing well in our par-takings in life. We, like many people, can be happy, joyous and free. Maybe we’ve just settled down. Peace.