Many people living in one day at a time recovery understand that there are times when living in recovery is supposed to be hard. This reality becomes increasingly evident when we argue with others over reasonable solutions that might help us to overcome difficulties. To do so we need to participate in doable actions. Such doable actions are to live one day at a time and also to let go of the reality of blame. We also practice the reality of mutual respect. In doing so we understand the reality of we. When we understand we, we understand the gift of one day at a time recovery. Togetherness is the reality of grace. Peace.