After living in recovery for a while we come to a crossroads in our realities of adaptability. What we discover is that sometimes we cannot learn what we need to learn to be capable of overcoming the over-obsessive needs that we have which are hindrances to our own peace of mind. When we see this we see we have difficulty in letting our obsessions go and the reason being is that such obsessions have become our coping skills. Some people say that we have found the reality of substitution. What we need to learn is that if we are not hurting ourselves or anyone else, and in all reality we are living with peace of mind, we will be okay. We don’t need to be conformist when we are already okay. Perfectionism is a false belief. Acceptance is usually our answer. Peace.
