Many people who live in one day at a time recovery are strong people. We become so because not only do we use our strength, but we surrender to it. We can call this the spiritual principle of surrender. Not only does surrender build strong character, we are able to do so because we are growing into a wiser reality. Our developing reality is that we no longer need to face recovery and life alone. When we reach out to others the delusion of believing we can do all things in and by ourselves ends. Our fear dissipates and we learn how to deal with our addictions. We begin to recover by not having that first one. We know this is our strength. Our reality is we are no longer alone. When we realize this our lives slowly but surely become manageable. Not perfect but manageable. We learn the difference between perfect and good. Mental health and addiction support groups might become a part of our recovery. The same goes for 12 step fellowships. We might even receive one on one professional support. We experience the importance of a life affirming community and personal humility. Life is good. Peace.
