People living in one day at a time recovery understand the reality of creation is that we eventually learn to be responsible for ourselves. Being responsible for ourselves does not mean we take complete control of ourselves, others, and everything around us. It means that we take simple steps, or reasonable precautions to remain abstinent and let go of trying to control others who we may or may not have taken hostage while in the throes and the confusion of active addiction. In recovery we let go of such oppressive behavior. When we do it sets us free and we learn to take responsibility for ourselves only. It’s a liberating experience. It’s the reality of creation. Peace.
