Many people living in one day at a time recovery understand the reality of thinking without generosity. Such thinking tends to be a function of egoic impairment. Thought without generosity creates an uneven playing field because when we do so we subscribe to such thoughts as believing we are more valuable than others or others are more valuable than us. The catch 22 of this is when we observe ourselves doing this, our egos then say, “How dare we think such a way” which is another attempt at its need for superiority. Somewhere in the midst of all this we understand just how positively human we are. We even stop listening to our non-generous judgement and we don’t react to its need to belittle or control. We learn a generous and kind reality and we live a generous and kind humility. It’s part of growth. Peace.