Some people living in one day at a time recovery spend much time writing, talking, and doing, while trying to prove that they are worthy of the title worthwhile productive human beings who are in all reality worthy of being, and deserve the realities of love and belonging. This is especially true of those of us who lack the reality of financially beneficial marketable skills. In others words disabled enough to the degree that we cannot maintain gainful employment. Such a condition in and of itself can cause enough anxiety that we can become opposed to the opinions and suggestions of others even though we might benefit from their experience. Life can become an extremely difficult endeavor when we cannot listen, and not being able to listen is disabling in itself. With a bit of humility we get to understand opposing views are not always wrong. It’s reality. Peace.