Many people living in one day at a time recovery need to understand that we are not unique. What we need to understand is that thoughts and beliefs that we are unique hinders personal growth and our ability to learn. Should we find ourselves in this unique position it is because we are people who struggle with flexibility and adaptability. In other words we have a persistent need to be in control. Needing to be in control is a common reality that many, many people have fallen into and it is a difficult reality to step out of. The end result of needing to be in control of everything and everyone really messes with our serenity. It turns most of us into troubled and resentful people. We need to let go to be well. It’s a tried and tested reality. Let go and let God. It’s a step into wellness. Peace.