Many people living in one day at a time recovery come to a point in their lives where they understand what is debatable and what is not. For some of us who are older, we realized that we were blind and deaf before we were in our 50’s. What we realized is that before this we were developing innocents who had little clues as to who or what we are. By the time we reach our 60’s we realize our need for grace and that we have all paid the price for having narcissistic egos which we get to understand functioned proudly, though frightened, trying to defend its worthiness. Reality is though that when we hit our 60’s it wanes a bit should we let it. Now we really get to know ourselves. The need for grace is no longer debatable. We need it. It’s knocking at our door. Peace.
