Many people who have come into the reality of living in one day at a time recovery understand that even though they are living in recovery there are times that hard times come and all we can do is ask the universe this question and this question is the question why? The answer to this question is not why not. The answer is can I change this or is this something I need to accept. If we don’t know maybe we should pray. God, or God as we understand God to be, will nudge us and say, maybe we should reach out for help. And perhaps we will. Other recovering people are often wise and helpful. Perhaps all we need is a bit of direction. It’s our reality. Perhaps though acceptance is our answer. Either way we’ll find out but we’ll know we’re not alone. Peace.